Humans

Humans are the most complex type of animals in the world..

It is almost impossible to guess or know what the other person is thinking or the cause of their actions or behaviour even thou he or she is your close partner.. sometimes one don't even know what they want or are thinking about, so how do they expect others to know.. at times, ones willpower is too weak and just cant control themselves, ended up having a volcano eruption or doing silly things.. the brain is just too complex..

Is the human nature born, or is it the environment that causes it? maybe it works in both ways, under the influence of peer pressure, the surroundings.. some people are optimistic, some are pessimistic.. some are responsible, some irresponsible.. some are leaders, some are followers.. etc etc..

No one is perfect in this world, if you think you are, then there is definitely sth wrong with you, immaturity in your brain.. often, people will have two faces, one in which is the one when you are outside with other people, the other when you are alone.. if you notice, normally the loudest person in a group is actually the one who will be hurt more, emotionally.. not saying a quiet person will not feel emotionally hurt, but in most cases, given the same situation, the louder person will not be able to handle the problems properly or better.. WHY? maybe it's because showing a louder personality to others can help hide their inferior side, but in fact, maybe they are the emotionally weakest of all..

At times, we only look at the bad points of one's character, often forgetting the good points of them.. you may say, he only has bad points and i cant see his good points, then, this may be one flaw in you.. view him and understand him with your heart, definitely he has some good points..

Treating pple like how you want them to treat you is an important factor.. it's a two way basis.. if they didn't realise it now, at least you tried your best, they will sooner or later realise it, maybe after a few years.. we should also put ourselves in someone's shoes and not make life difficult for them, having an attitude problem is not the correct way.. sad to say, most of us have this attitude problem towards different matters, no doubt even i have this problem, no use denying, you can bluff your way thru the others, but after all, one cannot deceive oneself.. so what if your studies and grades are excellent, but in the end your character is like shit, do you think till the end of the day pple will still want to hang out with you.. you may have a degree or even higher, but you may spend your life in the jail or having to spend a lonely life, is all these worth while and what you wanted, will you be happy ?!!

The human brain is too complex to understand, it take a few decades to learn.. the most important thing is that you must be contented with what you have, not take anything for granted, and not do things that disappoint the people who really care for you..

*PS: the above are only my opinion, it does not refers to anybody.. so, do not sue me for that.. =P